NOBODY is "perfect"
I think this video is important to remind people every now and then that NO ONE is "perfect."
We all have flaws that make us UNIQUE, NOT imperfect.
Everyone is beautiful in some way. Even if you yourself don't consider it to be beautiful
someone else in the world does.
Girls (and guys) write me all the time telling me they wish they were me, and that I'm perfect.
In complete honesty, this breaks my heart.
It's hard to be comfortable in your own skin, especially with how hard the world is on people
these days.
I get called every possible dirty name you can think of, and in just about every language as
well!
A huge question I get asked is how I deal with the hate.
I simply DON'T accept it.
I don't give the haters the joy of seeing me get upset and hurt (in internet words "trolled"
hehe) by their nasty words.
I remind myself that what they are saying are WORDS. Just like "I love you" and "hi"
Take a few minutes to clear your head of what they said, and think of positive things,
and compliments people have given to you.
If you see someone that you think is pretty, or looks nice TELL THEM! It will make you feel just
as good to give a compliment as they will feel to receive the compliment.
If you're being bullied on Facebook DELETE your account. It's YOUR facebook, you should be in
control of it.
Make your account
private, and only have a few close friends and family members.There's no law that says you
HAVE to
have a Twitter, Formspring, Facebook, ect. If your online account is something you fret having
to get on because
people are being mean then WHY have it?
Bullying is to such a horrible extreme that people are KILLING
THEMSELVES because of it.
I was bullied so bad when I was younger that I even considered the thought of hurting myself.
I assure you this isn't the right answer.
THINK before you say something to someone.
THINK about their feelings, and put yourself in their place as if what you're saying to them was
being said to you.
We need to be sticking together and be there for people, NOT pointing fingers and name
calling.
For those who suffer from bullies you have my full support.
Write me if you need someone to talk to, and if you feel like hurting yourself.
If you feel like no one cares, you're WRONG! Because I do.
It doesn't matter if you know me or not, everyone on this planet is family.











Comments
Just keep going whatever happens, you can get through it if u know how :) xx
As tabby says you just have to show them that it doesnt bother you. bullies strive on seeing people upset and hurt so if you ignore them then they stop.
Hope your okay :) xxx
With respect to Tabby, Vladislav Polezhaev :)
i cry my eyes out most of the time,
ive even tried hurting my self before:(
could i have some advice tabby?
but ive now kindof relised its not the awnser it doesnt get you anywhere,
and yess ive been called alot of things,
somtimes it really gets me down and i dont know what to do?
could you help?
thanks
you really helped me though, a couple days/weeks ago I saw your advise telling someone to just sit in front of a mirror and look for pretty things in yourself, I did and I'm really starting to like my appearance, I'm also more confident and I'm just CRUISING through life now ^^.
Not every one is so like you. you are not arrogant and so.
Ps: you hair are petty
Hugs
such amazing!
I know (but at the same time wonder) that there are many people who loves me. I don't want to brag about hurting people who hurt me or my loved ones, but that just feels necessary. My dad taught me not to turn another cheek, and I have followed that kind of pattern ever since.
Anyway, I'm against all kind of bullying since I've been through that myself. Bullies are weakminded people who has to raise their self-esteem. And sadly, in someones eyes they do.
I like to say nice things to my friends all the time. For example, if a girl from my class wears no makeup, I tell them how beautiful they look. It makes their day better and it's always nice to hear nice things. But I don't say it to be a suck up. (Was that phrase correct :D)
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